That sounds so frustrating and I'm sorry that you're dealing with all that.
While I agree that it would beneficial to discuss the issue with her, I also understand how challenging that can be for us.
Even if we do know that the very things that cause us great angst are the very issues that we should be addressing head-on, we tend to get and stay paralyzed by it... this is what we trying to overcome, no?

But really... what better environment is there to deal with such issues than with a mental health professional?
So even though I'm sure that you'll probably imagine all the worst possible outcomes of discussing it with her, I d encourage you to try.
Feeling awkward and moving ahead is something we all should practice more.