It seems like most of my life consists of people complaining about me behind my back, and if I realize it's going on and either try to ask what the problem is they just ignore me, or ignore me if I tell them to stop. Apparently it's ok to complain about people behind their back, but if I have a problem with anyone I'm the one in the wrong. How am I supposed to know what to fix if no one will TELL me I'm doing anything wrong? Is this normal? All I want is for someone someplace to just tell me what it is I can do, rather than backbiting, and occasionally yelling at me. That solves nothing. Am I wrong in wanting feedback from someone? Or should I just go through life expecting people to yell at me without anyone at all on my side of things? I'm confused and a lot hurt.

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