If there is time I do, if it is a planned event. But for the most part if a commercial comes on TV and the kids are begin good. We kinda run and say "HURRY LOCK THE DOOR". After kids there is just no time. No time for a shower before sex either. If my H is not to dirty sometimes he will shower afterwards. Sex just adds to the stickiness, and sweatyness, A shower is necessary afterwards for sure.