sandy it sounds like you are in a good position... not that there aren't problems but that you shouldn't have any reluctance to getting help for your problems. With a supportive and understanding husband I think you and he together will be able to find solutions. And like I said earlier the best part of all is that you recognize that there are problems and want to improve the quality of your life rather than just accepting the status quo.

Good luck and I hope you will keep posting here with questions and about problems and progress.

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