he isnt normally like that but i think he is just really scared of it happening again and was trying to keep me from doing it by saying things i wouldnt like to happen. please dont think he isnt a good therapist. i think his bluring boundaries and showing his fears about it in the wrong way. but we talked it out. i told him it made me mad and defensive. i think he was trying to prevent me from doing it by saying things like that to deter me from doing it. i dont know. it was confusing and made me feel bad.