yeah. hate. avoidance. anger. withdrawal.
defences...
(projection, denial, projective identification etc are different ways of avoiding / withdrawing from t)
also... devaluation (opposite of idealisation).
such feelings as:
condescending / seeing t as imcompetent or insignificant or ineffectual. powerless.
(these are all meant to be defences i think... but then... i've heard that postitive transference (idealising) is a defence too. i'm not sure about that... dunno... some theorists say that idealisation is a good thing because haveing faith in the therapists benevolence and power can help motivate the client to look at the hard stuff)
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