WE are the ones looking for help but often end up lecturing our Tīs about their boundaries, them being unprofessional and lacking integrity ect. on the forum
How can one learn about boundaries if everything is " spelled out on paper"?
IRL relationships doesnīt come with a written manual, so we can try to change our Tīs ( believe me I have tried
) or face the fact that they are there to help and teach us stuff, eventhough the process may hurt. They are trained in doing so and per definition are NOT necessarily unprofessional.
Based on the " quick dx" we often make in here, myself included " oh this is unethical, this T doesnīt have good boundaries, this is unprofessional behaviour ect. It seems like we sometimes forget why WE came into therapy in the first place and stir focuse away from ourselves and keep focus on the Tīs "issues" and " bad behaviour" instead? Uhm....just a thought