Hi everyone .. i've been following this thread, but i'm still not quite sure i understand properly

See I became (and still am very) attached to my house mother at my boarding school - although i am at university now - and these feelings are not going away, infact they are becomming more pronounced and it upsets me daily that i do not have the same sort of contact with her. I never got along with my mom so i always saw her as that "motherly figure". Is this transference? And if it is .. what does that mean exactly? How do i make it stop? Should i bring it up with my T? .. sorry for all the questions, and if you have to repeat yourself just guide me in the direction to where this might be answered.

Thanks so much, and i appreciate any feedback.
Jacq