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Originally Posted by HazelGirl
Amelia, I get what you're saying and in some cases I would agree.
However, can I respectfully disagree for a moment and explain why?
For some people, they need to be pushed to be a little more independent. A step like this would be a great thing. For others, however, who are already very independent and are fighting against allowing themselves to need others a little, a step like this is a step backwards. It is going from healthy inter-dependence to unhealthy isolation. If it is hurting the OP (which it sounds like it is), it is NOT a good move.
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So, is it like, with me? My t keeps calling me avoidant, she keeps encouraging calls between sessions when needed, as there is no texting or email choices. Im experimenting as well, fighting the urge to call. I impulsively called recently, and hoping, she does not call back. Is this do you think unhealthy on my part? Knowing what you know about me?