My sister is one of my major triggers. I love her to death, but she makes me crazy. She is 67 and I'm 55, but she still treats me like a "baby sister" who doesn't know her butt from a hole in the ground. She also likes to push my buttons when we're around other family members, presumably to get a rise out of me, and then she can point to my reaction as evidence that I'm unstable and need care. Her care.

She even thinks I should move in with her at her assisted-living facility if/when my husband passes away because she believes I'll need a caregiver. Well, there are times when I do need one, but she isn't it, and there's no way I'd qualify for AL because I'm totally independent. Thank goodness! Again, I love her a lot, but I truly WOULD go insane if I had to live with her.