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Originally Posted by Goingtogetthere
When it was just me I would always say what a lousy mother I was, and torture myself for being a failure at such an important job. Also, at that point my kid was saying I was a lousy mother and person. My therapist never said no, you aren't or yes, you are. This went on forever six months, then finally during one of my self flagellations she said, "You are a wonderful mother."
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Real lousy mothers don't worry that they are being lousy mothers, just sayin
. The really sh1tty mothers are the type that are never wrong in anything they do. But I think having a T say it should be all the evidence you need. If a T thought you were a crap mom, they would probably say something like "well, you're working on yourself!"