Email Dialogue... From April 2013.

1.) Me: "I think you avoid answering your phone these days and returning my phone calls. I know you'll never admit this."

"Therapist: It really didn't matter what time you called, I was with clients all afternoon and evening.

As you may recall I once assured you that you did not need to take care of me, that was my responsibility and I do take care of me.

And so it was Tuesday. Last client left around 8:30. I had not yet eaten and so I did that first. I then fielded messages and returned 2 that requested I reply as soon as possible. As I recall your message was something to the effect that you would like to touch base, if possible, and if it was not possible that was fine, and you were okay. I still had a number of things to take care of to finish off my work for that day, I had my kiddo assistance with a project he was undertaking, and I was tired and ready to call it quits for the day.

I took you at your word - if possible, you were okay, and not a problem if I did not get back to you. I did the same with the messages I had from other clients who indicated they did not need a reply - or did not need one that day.

It seems my actions offended you. I am sorry that you were offended.

I am also hearing that you are offended that I did not reply to your emails. My understanding was that you did not require replies, what you required was the opportunity to write and send them. I have answered as I am able. Again, I am sorry if you were offended. It was not my intention."