Most people do not have a clue. And with people who should have a clue, like parents, actually do not. When I was young I also was called lazy by my parents. I thought I was too. I did not understands those feelings, that which later became to be known as suffering by me. I did not understand why I had them. There was no apparent explanation. But now I know different. I know what they are and how those feelings can be treated. I am not lazy after all.