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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
Hmm... if you think a sexual encounter is a hookup, and, that it is semantics, then indeed you do not seem ready for sex, so it is probably best to stop thinking so much about it (if you can).
4) and it is that important for you to see him? that critically important?
5) flashbacks - aren't you in therapy?
2) why do you think he'd take advantage of you? Again, you talk as if you were not in control.
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This is semantics again. A sexual encounter in my opinion sounds like a random hook up, not a romantic/sexual relationship. Yes, I am not ready for sex. That doesn't mean I don't want it or feel badly for not having it.
4) I'd like to see him. It's not critically important.
5) Therapy doesn't stop flashbacks. It helps teach you to manage them.
2) Because my father took advantage of me. All encounters with men are badly stained after my own father wouldn't take "no, stop. You're hurting me I can't breathe" as an answer. Of course I don't feel in control.