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Hey all,
So long story short I had this BPD friend who I was really close to but for the past 6 months or so she has split me black and has hated me. Now we have been NC for around 6 weeks and the last time we spoke she told me wanted me out of her life forever. However in the past week she has contacted me with messages saying she's outside my house, when I asked why her response was, "Why not". She has done this twice now and i'm not exactly sure why. I don't get much mobile signal at my house and the first time she text me to say she was in the car park outside, I got the message 2 hours after she sent it by which time she had left. Then the second time I missed her as I was at the gym. She seems to be a bit less hostile and when I text her asking if she wanted to be friends again she replied, "I'm sorry but it's a no" and that her bf hates me and would never be okay with it.
Has anyone else ever experienced this? Is she trying to reach out or something? This whole thing is pretty confusing :S
Would really appreciate any advice
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