thanks guys, i suggested therapy but she'd rather talk to people who have been through it, sort of her own agish, she has been to therapy in past, doesn't want to go there just yet, iwill give her some space, but i am going to tell her bf, he loves her so much, he will lokk after her too.she has a concert in a big venue tonight so i am going to catch her at the right moment when she is relaxed
thanks for your support, kerry xxxxxjinny