hazelgirl what transference do you see?? maybe I am but I think the things I see and hear are quite clear. I know she is angry. or else she would not be the way she is. . I don't know all this is a horrible way I am feeling .I just keep hoping I can just temper tantrum out today and just sleep and get over it but the anger is huge .the horribleness is big and just isn't going away . it just seems to be getting worse as the days go on .