I've been in therapy, for a decent part of the last 6-7 years, erring on 6, since it was end of '07. Granted I went a bit, as a child, dads an educator, parents divorced, and he felt it in best interests, whichconsidering nature of divorce, and I agree. And I went a bit, during college, dealing with two, very important father figures ailing health and a roller coaster long term romantic relationship, it was necessary, even if I never told my parents. I've spent this time period, sorting through and abusive marriage, and abuse past divorce. Sorted out my relationship needs, red flag indicators, work related issues, parenting a bit, he feels I've fostered a very loving, trusting bond with my sons(despite my moments of struggles, two kids of three with developmental disabilities), I've made therapy work for me. Any extra outside work, is about myself not them.

But I get what you mean, I believe. It would seem counterproductive, to spend so much time and money,,to make life about the fantasy effect of anyone, much less my t.

But, just pointing out, some of us, longer term clients have other reasons to be in so long, not this reason, that's brought forth.

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