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Originally Posted by hayleytheherbivore
He needs to be seeing a professional
You show interest in wanting to ween out of this relationship, and I think moving out for your safety again would be the first step. The other arrangements can come later. I know you may feel like you don't want to make a fuss or other reasons, but it's time to reassert yourself.
Before you worry about him, please take care of yourself first and your kids. His behavior and emotions will never be on your account.
Good luck, I know you can do this.
If you feel you are ever in immediate danger, call emergency services or go to a woman's shelter. There are lots of women in the world who have experienced the pain that comes with having an out-of-control husband.
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This isn't about you, first of all. Second, worrying about safety is most important. Trying to understand which illness this could be won't resolve anything, right now. That healing process can come, later. Because you are still married, much easier to get away. There's state funding available. Contact a help line, connect with a d.v. Attorney.
why would it have to take years? Going at it, traditionally, leaves you in more physical danger, than you realize.
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