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Originally Posted by melania
People are in therapy for years. At first they think about their problems and how to help themselves but then therapy turns to obsessesion with therapist.I've been reading so many posts here and I can say that most of people are really obsessed with their therapists, therapist becomes one of the most important person of your life, you are so interested in him/her, you think about him/her most time of your day, sometimes you feel sad, hurted, rejected because of your therapist, you want to know so much about him/her, some of you want his/her hugs or touches, some of you need another therapist to talk about your therapist, for some of you your therapist is the biggest problem, some of you really hate boundaries, some of you dream about sex with your therapist.
Do you really think it's healthy and helpful? Do you want to spend all your life thinking about your therapist who will never be your friend, who you see once a week and pay for it?
I just wanted to share my thoughts.
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I think you might want to read up on psychological projection, Melania. Since every post you've ever written is "obsessed" filled erotic transference.
In case it escaped your attention... this board is called Psychotherapy. People don't come here to debate the price of bread, they come here specifically to talk about therapy. Not everyone is "obsessed" as you put it, but going thru very difficult times and it can weigh on the mind like any other problem in life and it's a relief to come here and talk to others going thru the same thing and not be judged... although increasingly it would seem like non-judegement is becoming something of a precious commodity on these boards lately.
