Hi niceguy, I know it must hurt a lot especially as it wasn't that long ago the relationship properly ended. And.......being tough.......pretending/acting like you're fine can sometimes temporarily help but there comes a point where it just makes things even harder if that's not what you feel in your heart. Sometimes it can just help to "let it out"/talk about it, what do you think? But you know here's one place at least you don't have to be tough.......act like you're fine.
So yes, really early days (not that long ago) from the breakup. You may need to give yourself plenty of time to grieve the ending of the relationship. Go easy on yourself.
As for loving again, I'd say that first of all you need to gradually get over/move on from this and then in time........it's going to be more a matter of (when you meet the right person) you can't help loving again if you leave yourself open to just the tiniest possibility that there may be someone else out there.
And as ever: here for you
Alison