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Old Mar 24, 2014, 11:15 AM
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No. I'd only get hugs from my mother if initiated it. And she'd often push me away or only hug me for half a second. My father never hugged me in my memory. I think my mom might have kissed me goodnight on occasion but I don't really remember. I remember the last time my dad kissed me. I was six years old and he kissed my head on the way to work. I complained and said his face was scratchy. He never kissed me or touched me in a non abusive way ever again.

This wasn't the worst they did, but it was hard because I highly suspect that even though I'm very sensitive to it and hate it when random people touch me, I think touch might be one of my more crucial "love languages". I respond to it very strongly either in a negative way or a negative way. It all depends on how close I feel to you emotionally and where/how you touch me.
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Thanks for this!
Lbelle