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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
Hymens, of course, have a hole in them....they could have two holes (septate) or many (cribiform)
They can be thicker or thinner. They can even have NO hole, but the OP would have known that because there would be a lack of menstrual fluid.
Since using a tampon is difficult, I would say that the hole is small. As was mine.
Semantics aside, (including your use of the term "pop it") I used personal experience to relate to the OP.
Perhaps you didn't have such experiences and, so, cannot relate to the OP.
I'm sorry that you were taught by fear tactics. It must have had a lasting effect on you  |
I didn't mean to attack you or say that you were wrong or anything. I just read something, interpreted it, and responded. You are only responsible for what you say, not for how I interpret it. If my interpretation wasn't aligned with the point you were making, that's on me and I apologize. No harm, no foul beyond getting a little bit off topic, but effectively bumping the thread, perhaps giving other women who maybe can relate better a chance to see the thread and give their insight. I'm on tapatalk and can't see if anyone has responded to the original question while I've been going on a hymen tangent.
It did have lasting effects on me. That plus religion caused me to not masturbate until I was 17 despite having LOTS of sexual feelings much earlier in off out of a dual fear of going to hell and of being in intense pain. However, with a little bit of private research and a lot of reconsidering religion, I managed to overcome that particular fear. I saw something that reminded me of the rhetoric I heard that scared me able wanted to say what I know now to be true.