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Old Mar 24, 2014, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by melania View Post
It was the best thing he told me last session not in all my therapy time with him if you read carefully my post. He has told me many good things but also things which really hurt me. Last session was really painful.

I know about my dentist's personal life but I agree that dentists are not so important to us like our therapists are and I'm not saying this only about myself, there are no forums for being in love with a dentist.

I think that being honest is good in anyway because then we can better understand each other. I hate lies, I always thought that heartbreaking reality is better then sweet lies.
When he told me all those things I see him as a honest person and it helps me to open myself. But people are different, which helps me can be worst for you.
My biggest problem in therapy was that we can't understand each other and we can't believe each other, we all the same are asking the same questions to each other again and again.
Yes, it's not the best analogy comparing a dentist to a therapist, but the point is, both should act in a professional manner. He's not ( your T) and you need to understand that.