Thanks for all of the responses, it was well thought out. I especially like the one that said I shouldn't have said my ex was my "bestie". That probably wasn't smart.

It still upsets me, but I am thinking about it. He wrote in an email that he "didn't like my tone and we aren't dating and he's already getting attitude from me" Two valid points by that way.

I appreciate all the comments and replies though to this thread. Maybe I am not ready to enter the dating world. Me and my ex (my best friend) don't have any romantic connections. During the two years we were together we never had sex and it was never intimate. It was always like we were just two friends that hugged on his couch. He was not a romantic and he didn't love me, that's why we broke up. I didn't need sex to love him. but I realized as time went on, that emotional sexual connection is very important.

I don't want to go explaining that whole detail to a potential suitor, but I think it was wrong of me to mention he was my best friend. Guys don't like to hear that. But I am glad I found this out about him now rather than later. I did dodge a bullet. We aren't compatible. I guess Eharmony matched me up with the wrong person. You guys were right. Thanks for all the responses.