Well, maybe it's pointless to go back to the first post--considering the OP's awful situation (run like hell, Meliana!)--but I wanted to partially agree that I have found it very surprising to read this forum and see how many people talk about hugging, holding hands, "love" (romantic and otherwise) or friendship with their therapist... I've only been seeing my guy for a couple months but I really don't see my relationship to him as close or personal at all. He's a nice quiet person. He asks good questions. That's all I want.