No my T has never said my name except in email or the couple times she had too phone me. But I also have never said her name. Even in my journal I refer to her as T. Somehow using names breaks the fantasy in my mind I think. If I had to say her name it would make it so real. If she said my name? well I don't know, I just dont want her to use it. I just like her smiling gestures instead.