Hi, you hated the woman texting your husband, but surely you hated him more!! Afterall he was the one who had the commitment with you, he was the one you trusted, he was the one who you had a relationship with.
I'm not saying hate's a good thing to carry with you at all or that it's necessarily right to hate people but initial reactions and all that...........
And your ex and his fiance could have worked through what he did if the relationship was that strong to begin with anyway and used it to make the relationship even stronger. But clearly something missing/highlighted for that not to have happened, right?
Now to 101% to agree with UM:
"HE acted poorly. You did not"
"HE sounds like slime. I think if they break up - you just saved her a lot of pain"
And I should say UM really "knows where things are at"!!
Alison