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Originally Posted by hvert
That sounds like such a stressful relationship! Congratulations on being done with it. It's hard to break up with someone, even when you know that you are doing the right thing. I hope you feel better about it soon (and that she doesn't try to worm her way back into your life).
I took a year off from dating after I realized that I was just making one bad choice after another. It was the best thing I ever did. I put a lot of serious thought into 'red flags' and did not date anyone until I met someone who had none of those red flags. We've been together six years now.
Good luck!
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Hvert:
Thanks!!!
She did text me yesterday stating she could not give my Roku back this week and she needed some transition time so she could get her own. I told her that I have paid for the Asian channels until mid April so go ahead and keep it until then. And she responded back with, "Thank you that was very nice of you".
It is very hard knowing that I hurt her and still feel a bit sad but in my heart I know it is the right thing for me and her. She obviously was frustrated in our relationship because I could not do enough for her. I really had to figure what I want from a relationship. I then got the answer. I just want someone to appreciate me for who I am and not try to mold me or change me. I am not a bad person and even though I have my faults, I would like someone to appreciate me for who I am with warts and all.
I also hope to find someone but need to take it easy a bit. I heard it will just happen when you least expect it.