i think transference neurosis is just an intense transference response. most people grant that transference is a feature of most of our relationships. transference neurosis is when the therapist becomes the most emotionally significant person in your life. can lead to obsessional thoughts or very frequent fantasies or whatever.

Unfortunately, I have transference neurosis. You don't want it trust me. I am very attached and dependent on my T. I don't want that to change but then I do. It's a never ending cycle so far....thanks for posting the links. I plan to check them out.