hi ogre
I don't think you are doing anything wrong. you are entitled to a life outside of your gf. this is her problem. you cannot help it that she has trust issues. this will be an ongoing problem for you if she doesn't learn to trust you and become more social. it would be helpful if she got into therapy to deal with her issues. it sounds like you bend over backwards for her. things are not going to change unless she changes her outlook. welcome to psych central. you will find that we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome