Hi Stronger, you ARE YOU. No-one can take that away from you, if people aren't seeing that then you tell them!! That's if you want to of course!! And it's their loss if they're missing out on seeing/trying to get to know who you really are!!
There is so much more to you than "categories", being put in boxes!!. Unfortunately there are always going to be people who define you solely based on certain things but you know better, and what you choose to do with that is up to you.

Although, as you did put out the invite......... here's a few more labels for you!! :
Honest
Supportive
Understanding
Encouraging
Unique
And I'm sure others around here could/would offer you a lot more along those lines!!!

Alison