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Old Mar 25, 2014, 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
Did you and your t split in good terms or was there some unfinished business Rainbow? I know this is why I still hold into then and attach to those relationships so much because there was never closure and I cling to some hope.
It's so hard but I think once you sit with these feeling and figure out what they want and need to move on it might help?
I am trying to do this now and it's very hard because I get caught up with feeling close to them again instead of separating .
Well, my job was ending and I applied to grad school and got into one across the country, so I went. I had plenty of preparation, but didn't really want to leave, I just didn't know what I was going to do there anymore. It's hard for me to move on, because I'd love to go back since most of my friends live out there (though now I'm living closer to family- left grad school last year bc I hated it and living in such a cold place).

Thanks for the support. I just miss my old T a lot this week