Anyone who has truly loved another individual, mind, body and soul gets this. I don't mean to dispute Anyone's claims - but if someone continually hurts you, yes you hate them - but ofcourse you still love them. It is a tricky business this love thing. Yet, if you don't realize what is meant, how can you ever say you have truly loved.
The two emotions are so heavily intertwined, it is impossible to pull them apart. Just as there is a reason for the saying "there's a fine line between pleasure and pain" - the same principle applies. "Some things are true, whether you believe them or not".
Finally for the one who said that they don't care if their ex is mentioned. I believe it to be untrue... If you really had moved on, you would be happy to hear they are doing well. Hey, JMO!!