All in all, I think this is fairly normal, although I would probably stop driving by her house.

For some people (and I was one of them) therapy needs to be very big in their lives. After all, it is transformative. Transformation is not easy.

If someone is kind to us, we naturally will respond. We naturally will doubt. We naturally will think about it a lot because it's a lot to process - that kindness, but I think it is how we internalize it and come to generalize it to ourselves and others.

What would be so wrong if you just let yourself enjoy how you feel about your therapist? Accepted it for what it is and was happy that there was something positive in your life?

Really. What would be so wrong with that?