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Originally Posted by PeaceKeeper93
Sorry I messed up on the title on the other post, you can comment on it still, but the title is just messed up, lol. I am just curious about this. It's weird cause my guy friend he'll say sexual things to me here and there, but I just usually laugh and he gets quiet. Then one time I went out with a guy and I heard behind my back that he said to another guy friend of mine "She's way too good for him, man!" He even said to me "I'm a piece of ****" "I'm a douchebag" etc. He never actually said to me "You're too good for me" But I get the feeling he feels that way. I remember he said "You're way too nice" he said that in regards to a guy that ditched me, and stood me up, and I just let it go, and never talked to that guy again.
I remember one time he was drunk and he kept going on and on about a guy I dated ONCE and he kept bashing him, and he kept on mocking him in a way. I notice that he seems more comfortable around people that are kinda trashy and he seems more quiet and reserved around me. I always hear compliments behind my back, like he'll barely compliment me to my face.
Anyways back to the question. When a guy feels that the girl is "too good" for him will he distance himself? Will he feel intimidated? I am just curious if this is a insecurity problem. Like what makes a guy think you are "too good" for them? Thanks
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He probably feels that way about you and likes you, but since he doesn't feel "worthy" he won't do anything to approach you until you open the door for him. You would, if you wanted to, have to be the one to let him know you're interested. It's kind of his indirect way of saying "I want you but I don't know if you would go for a guy like me"