Oh I'm planning on telling him that I'm doing that. :-) But I'm not planning on changing it just yet. I need a buffer or I'm going to give up on the whole group thing. There's a lot of conflict in the group, and I'm not that interested in being all anxious every week. Plus I tend to think the conflict is petty stuff.

I probably won't actually quit, but I keep thinking about whether I value it at all or not.

Sidony