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Old Mar 26, 2014, 11:39 AM
PeaceKeeper93 PeaceKeeper93 is offline
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Originally Posted by happiedasiy View Post
Dear PeaceKeeper93,

It sounds like he is behaving as people who do lack the confidence to show true colors.
Maybe you can help him by opening the door (figuratively).
Compliment him about the things you like about him.

When a guy really likes a special woman ( shes the one for me ) they get weird/ not being able to express to you but can say to others. How do you feel about him?

Sounds like he does have some insecurity issues or maybe he is warning you, he may be afraid of a good relationship with a great girl.
The ball is in your hand.
That could very well be true! It just weird cause he'll express his problems to me, and he'll express little things here and there. Like very subtly he makes comments to me. It's just not all the time. He makes it seem like he's not interested in me, but then I will hear from friends that he said he likes me and he said this and that about me. Like my one friend said that he said "She's a good girl" and my friend said he like smiled as he said it, haha. He also "joked on a square" to our friends, saying we were dating, when we clearly weren't. He quickly said he was "just joking" so that was let go. But he stares at me all the time. It's like he's looking through me, lol. Cause he like deeply stares. But it's hard cause I am shy myself, and I have insecurities, trust issues, and self esteem issues myself, so it's hard for me to take the initiative, but thank you so much for commenting!
Hugs from:
happiedasiy