I was never told this or hugged ever while I was growing up. I crave it now I think as a result but It's as if I have an invisible wall around me. I would love my T to ask me this or to hug me. She has just Made me feel guilty for saying that 50 mins a week isn't enough at the moment. I am in pieces. I am destined to always be alone and untouchable. You sound as if you have made huge progress with your new T. I am so pleased Sweepy.