I talked earlier about how I was talking to another guy behind my husbands back a few weeks ago. I desperately needed advice, and I received it from ya'll in which I greatly appreciate. But new problems have surfaced, which of course is predicted to happen in these sorts of situations. I pretty much asked for this to happen by continuing it.

First problem is he will not take a hint and is persistent in persuading me. He says if I was to over stop talking to him he would come down here to try to persuade me face to face despite my wishes for him not too.

Second, when I do try to avoid him he calls here when my husband is home and messages me constant messages on MySpace. He doesn't get it....I have a husband.

Third, he's dramatic like a high school girl and drives me nuts.. I'm ready to stop this now. I've had a good talk with my husband and he's most definitely worth keeping around. I'm ready to stop this and keep my life good with my husband.

My question is what do I do, how do I tell this guy to stop this before we get anymore and depth and cause much more grief...my entire life here at home is on the line..