I thought I could close this thread but the drama continues.

She wanted to talk to me last night and when I did get home she was at my door. She said that she will change and never react the way she did. She told me that she does trust me and that will no longer be an issue.

I did shoot straight to her and said that I feel that I am a good person with great qualities and if she can't appreciate me for who I am there has to be someone that will.

I did admit that I need to learn when I give don't expect things in return or just don't offer. She will gladly pay for her way on things and never knew it hurt me.

She felt horrible and said she loves me and does not want to lose me. I could not promise her anything but had to think things through first.

So let your advice fly!!!