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Originally Posted by kaliope
there sounds like lots of reasons to leave, but can you summon the courage to? a solution to staying seems to be to let him have his sex life on the side as you go port to port. then you can still have the life you are accustomed to and he gets what he wants as well. take care..you have a lot to think about  |
Thanks, but I don't think this is an option for me. I thought I was open-minded enough to accept him having sex on the side, but that has turned out to be a deal breaker for me. I especially resent the amount of time he spends on pursuing outside sexual connections and downloading porn while I'm sitting literally just around the corner from him. Not to mention that he is spending our joint retirement funds on these activities.