Awe, no, I definitely encourage you to flounce!!! Actually, I see it in a positive light, not a negative "flouncing" attention-getting way at all. I personally would definitely bring up the shift with my therapist, I would ask her about the lack of contact, I'd probably tell her how it seems to remind me of a pattern of the past relationship with the boyfriend.

I just mean to say..... I'm not sure if it will do you good to assess your relationship right now, or if it might be best to work on it for a bit, just accept where you are, say what you need to say, see how it goes for a bit, and wait to assess it later. Seems like there is a lot that needs to settle first, let the dust clear and see what the scenery is like in a little while...