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Old Mar 26, 2014, 08:51 PM
Yearning0723 Yearning0723 is offline
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Originally Posted by Heartlight View Post
I'm glad you mentioned that Yearning. I agree that when people are told you care about them/or they just pick up on the signs...they get scared and distance themselves. It's not always advisable to be open.
That is so frustrating and contradictory though...it's such a difficult balance to not care too much but care just enough that people feel valued and important...it feels so inauthentic and it's a source of constant anxiety for me.