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desirae said:
First problem is he will not take a hint and is persistent in persuading me.

My question is what do I do, how do I tell this guy to stop this before we get anymore and depth and cause much more grief...my entire life here at home is on the line..

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I would suggest that you NOT hint around about it any more and that you come straight out and tell him to STOP!!!! -
and yes I agree it is time that the TRUTH of this matter come from your lips (and not his) - for while hubby might be angry and hurt... he will be more hurt if he has to find out from another (and) if it was just innocent chatting then you have nothing to loose if you speak up, but a lot to loose if you remain quite - Right?

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))