I'm not even the slightly bit pissed, if I were there wouldn't be a post for you to respond to

All I was trying to convey was that your opinions don't seem to be taking different situations into context ( so you mayyy want to adjust them) and that just because someone doesn't wish sunshine and roses on an ex doesn't mean their are unresolved feelings or that the ex is still in their hearts.

But you've chosen to ignore what I was saying and decided that I am pissed off and have unresolved feelings.

I have no feelings for a man who beat me to a pulp and shoved his boots into my ribs repeatedly.

Yes I harboured a lot of anger and resentment for a lonng time, but I've moved forward and healed from that experience.

If I didn't, I would not be able to be with my bf.

That particular ex is not worth taking up space in my head, I closed that door a while ago, and if you still think I'm kidding myself or being dishonest or whatnot, then really that's an issue of yours, not mine.

I don't believe in beating dead horses, so will move on from this thread now.

CE, I hope you find the answers you seek