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Old Mar 27, 2014, 06:20 AM
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Originally Posted by anna_goth27 View Post
Thank you. I am trying to stay positive and do my best to keep my head above water by not allowing things (especially my coworker) get to me. I know Ive tried my best when it comes to my work and everyone is entitled to mistakes. And I also know that I never had done anything with malicious intent, despite what anyone thinks. Its just really a matter right now of trying to forgive myself more so than forgive them because I honestly dont blame her for being mad. I blame myself for making her mad. I wish that since I started of following instructions (and therefore lying by omission) that I had just continued lying and not allowed my emotions at that split second to get the best of me and make me confess.

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We all make mistakes and it sounds like in the end you did what was right instead of continuing down a less than ethical path. In today's world it seems that people would rather we deceive others (as you said, lying by omission) or not perform our jobs ethically.

So while we need to consider other's emotions, sometimes the best thing is that they be upset because doing what is right isn't always pleasant.

Just hang in there. As they say, no good deed goes unpunished ... but you're laying the ground work later for honesty in your life.
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