The other extension of the topic was how the therapist and client handle the blind spots besides the client quitting.
I have never found the talking from the first one (I guess she was trying interventions or interpretations) to be on point or useful. Now that she will listen when I ask her not to talk - she is useful because she stays back. She has stated that she is now less kind - I never found her kind before and it feels more kind to me now that she will stay back and not keep trying to inflict herself on me. = so although I think it is a blind spot - she is somewhat flexible to stop it even if not completely going into another sort.