Then there is the older guy who I know from him coming into my old work. We have been talking lately and I've confided my situation to him. The unique thing about him that I really like is that his last relationship was with someone who died from cancer, and he knew when he got into it that was the case. I don't really feel attracted to him and he's sooooo much older than me, but he says he doesn't want to pressure me on that front. Could this be an option? I've never been a gold digger so that part of me screams, NO you're taking advantage. But would I really be?