So my t has been back at home for a couple weeks now (for those of you that know the situation) and i just wanted to give a fast update-- things are going soooooo great!! I missed her so bad when she was overseas (going on three years now& she is home for a family thing going on)-- we have spent tons of time together. Like 3-10 hours a day together most of the weeks, doing lots of things together like coming to my house and going for walks and out to dinner

. She has spent tons of time with the young alters who really,really needed to just sit in person with her and get lots of hugs. Lots of breakthroughs i think with some of them too,

So even though we have been doing some fun things we have also worked really really hard on issues, and that feels really good. It just been so good and so healing for our aching heart. Its going by way way too fast though. We are both trying to not think about when she has to leave because she wants to stay here at home too... Its going to be so tough when she goes back up to area she has to live for now (forever away even by plane), so we are trying hard to appreciate every minute we have with her right now.